The feeling you get when you wake up without the horror of heartache;of having had coonversations with friends that leave you feeling stimulated rather than more obssesed than ever;of having achieved something else with your time. Being happy in you own skin and doing yourself justice so that you can thrive. The rest follows. You have so many tools at your disposal, from your brain to your spirit to your freedom to your emotional intuition to your willpower, and now's the time to put them to work for you. You can do more, you can be more. And once you are done with you, you'll be more confident, successful, irresistable, and more beautiful.

The only thing keeping me sane is work. I'm not complaining,that's how my life is supposed to be cause I'm young and still building my future. Work was probably not my no1 priority for the past two years. I've been too busy trying to 'build' a relationship and it consumed me, I let it. Never made enough time to achieve my goals and dreams. not knowing that what I built in 2 years 2 months will crash in just 1 weekend of unnecessary pain and frustration. One Friday incident I never thought warranted a breakup ended the relationship and resulted in a weekend of avoidance and me making a fool of myself making calls that were never returned. And to top it all off, I sent smses I regret sending as if I was wasted. The following day entailed me writing the whole night like I had done the previous week and thought about where I wan't to take my life, my career. Statistics prove that the most successful women are single, I'm going to be one of them and I'm not terrified. I am looking forward to it. They say everything happens for a reason but you have to learn the lesson before you know the reason. I have learned the lesson: never commit in your 20s when,there is still so much to do,don't ever let any guy steal your self worth and self esteem and never try to turn a man into what you want him to be, let him be who he wants to be. No matter the pain, a woman must be strong and see being single as an opportunity to put her life in perspective. And if he doesn't give a damn how you feel, he is not worth your tears.